Both are wrong, being out of character with God a loving Father who would do anything to save us from eternal damnation.

On the one hand—the question poses that because there is a form of love, it must be okay because God is Love.

But God’s Love is selfless. Self sacrificing to put you in right relationship with Him. All that is morally pure points to Christ, forgiveness, God, oneness, Holy Spirit, truth.

On the other hand— the slave owner  is obviously wrong by just the description— One deceptive, one is blatant. They are both in need of a savior.

When all else fails—-follow the red letter—-what did Jesus say.

His Judgements are true —- filled with love — and always lead you to the Father.

What is worse, someone who divorces his wife to marry another. Or a homosexual living out his desires.?

They are both equally guilty of sexual sin. Which sin is forgiven?

Which is worse: someone living in a homosexual lifestyle or a pastor who brow beats his constituents.?

We all need a savior.